~てください (Polite Requests in Japanese)

~てください (Polite Requests in Japanese)

Ever wanted to ask someone to do something in Japanese, like “please wait,” “please come in,” or “please say it again”?

That’s exactly what ~てください is for.

You'll need this grammar form if you want to get what you want from other people. 😉

In this guide, you’ll learn:

  • What ~てください means and when to use it
  • How to form it with any verb
  • Real examples you’ll hear every day
  • Practice exercises to help it stick

Let’s get started!

What Does ~てください Mean?

「~てください」is the polite way to ask someone to do something in Japanese.

It’s made of:

  • A verb in the ~て form
  • Plus 「ください」, which literally means “please give (me)” — but when paired like this, it turns into “please do [something].”

Examples:

  • まってください → Please wait
  • よんでください → Please read
  • たべてください → Please eat

It’s polite but still direct, perfect for when you want to make a request without being too forceful.

How to Make the ~てください Form

Just follow these two steps:

Step 1: Change the verb to its ~て form

For example,

  • のむのんで
  • たべるたべて

Step 2: Add 「ください

Done! For example:

  • たべるたべてください → Please eat
  • のむのんでください → Please drink
  • まつまってください → Please wait
  • はなすはなしてください → Please speak
  • するしてください → Please do
  • くるきてください → Please come

When to Use ~てください

Use this form when you want to politely ask or tell someone to do something.

It’s great for:

  • Giving directions
  • Asking for help
  • Telling someone what to do (nicely)
  • Instructions in class, stores, or manuals

Real-Life Examples Using ~てください

You’ll hear these kinds of phrases everywhere:

まってください

Matte kudasai! → Please wait! (don't goooo~!)

みてください

Mite kudasai. → Please look.

ドアしめてください

Doa wo shimete kudasai. → Please close the door.

ここなまえかいてください

Koko ni namae wo kaite kudasai. → Please write your name here.

もういちどいってください

Mou ichido itte kudasai. → Please say it one more time. (Take note of this one, it's pretty useful...)

きをつけてください

Ki wo tsukete kudasai! → Please be careful!

これください

Kore kudasai. → Please give me this. (Not really ~てください, but commonly used to buy stuff at a store. And no, they won't give it to you for free 😅)

Can I Drop the 「ください」?

Yes, but only in casual situations.

If you’re talking with close friends or kids, you can drop 「ください」and just say the ~て form with a softer tone:

  • まって → wait
  • みて → look
  • ちょっとまって → wait a sec

But for anyone you don’t know well (or in public), keep「ください to not sound like a demanding, rude person.

What Does 「ください」 Really Mean?

ください」comes from the verb くださる, which is the polite/honorific way to say “to give” in Japanese.

So originally, 「~てください」literally meant something like:

“Please do [this action] and give it to me.”

Over time, it simply came to mean:
“Please do this.”

You’ll still see ください used on its own too:

  • これください。→ Please give me this.
  • みずください。→ Water, please.

So whether it’s giving a thing or giving an action, 「ください」is basically the way to say “please.”

Practice Time!

Practice 1: Make a Request

Turn these verbs into ~てください form:

のみます → __________

はなします → __________

かきます → __________

きます → __________

します → __________

Answers:

のんでください

はなしてください

かいてください

きてください

してください

Practice 2: Translate It!

Write these in Japanese using ~てください:

  • Please speak slowly.
  • Please turn right.
  • Please take a seat.

Answers:

  • ゆっくりはなしてください
  • みぎまがってください
  • すわってください

Final Recap

~てください is the Japanese grammar pattern for making polite requests.

  • Use it when you want to say “please do…”
  • Just take the ~て form of a verb and add ください
  • It’s direct but polite for everyday Japan life

Use it at work, in stores, on signs, and with anyone you want to speak to respectfully.

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